Black Love: A Shocking thing 68% of Black Men and Women do

I felt deeply led by God to blog about this issue. We often hear from pastors, friends, life coaches, family, etc that we should abandon people simply because things are not going our way. Yes, there is a time to let go, but there are also times we … [Read more...]

Relationship Coaching: 9 ways to overcome insecurities

Insecurity is a problem we all deal with in life in general. Thus, this issue is not just a relational issue-although in this blog, I will address it strictly from a relationship standpoint. Next to fear insecurity in my opinion is the second … [Read more...]

Spiritual Growth Coaching:Ten steps to overcoming bitterness and resentment

Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:31-32 Bitterness and resentment are … [Read more...]

Relationship Coaching: Text Messaging

Technology has become a wonderful staple and a beacon of efficiency in our lives. Words that once took days to reach their intended recipient can now be communicated in mere seconds. We all know the mediums of email, texting, and the power of social … [Read more...]

Spiritual Growth Coaching: 10 Steps to Forgiveness

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong- Gandhi First, I want to thank everyone for the continued love and support. I have received countless messages concerning my blogs along with several questions. I give God the … [Read more...]

Relationship Coaching: Healing before love

To gain the "true love" you must desire to heal. Isaiah 43:18 18 "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past True love requires holding hands and walking as one are you willing to give of yourself to walk the journey? Many times … [Read more...]

Relationship Coaching: Love is a choice

Love is a human hunger we all desire. God placed this beautiful desire within us. We all have a love "tank" that needs to run on full instead of empty. This doesn't have to be limited to romantic love since the love of family and friends is needed as … [Read more...]

Relationship Coaching: Do you multiply or divide?

In life we seek to be a part of a relationship. However, how often do we seek a relationship to multiply, add to, and enhance the life of another? Often we seek a relationship in order to gain something; however, the problem arises when the gain is … [Read more...]

Spiritual Growth Coaching: The dangers of emotion

An emotional person is defined as: One who is easily affected with or stirred by emotion; one who displays emotion; one with a tendency to rely on or place too much value on emotion; or one whose conduct is ruled by emotion rather than reason. We … [Read more...]

Spiritual Growth Coaching: Painful Reality

The painful lesson of life is... you don't always matter as much to the people who really matter to you... no matter if it's rooted in a selfish heart, lust, pride, greed, or lack of loving correctly... this fact remains. We must do our part to pray … [Read more...]