How to Fight for Love and When to Walk Away

In this video I discuss the importance of knowing when to hold on and when to let go. Don't allow anyone to make you feel good about letting go of something before God speaks to you. There will be a time to hold on and a time to let go, but you have … [Read more...]

5 Dating Mistakes Men Make

Men are fearless when it comes to dating, right? Actually, men have many of the same dating concerns as women. I have received several messages from men about dating fears and struggles. Their concerns are really no different from those of women. … [Read more...]

How to Love Forever: Part 3

No one says, “I want to love and then lose it.” In fact, when we enter a loving relationship, we may find ourselves praying for it to last forever. Many have said, “Love is unpredictable.”  In actuality, love is not the problem, people are. Love has … [Read more...]

How To Love Forever: Part 2

This week, we will continue with the theme of making love last forever (in case you missed it… Part 1: How to Love Forever). Does the thought of love lasting forever scare you? Maybe you are thinking, “Yeah right, nothing is forever.” Perhaps you … [Read more...]

Dating Advice: Do you go on dates looking for faults instead of looking for greatness?

How often do you look for faults in the people you meet? Whether its meeting someone for coffee or going on a first date, do you automatically see a flag that says “STOP”? We all have yellow flags of caution - our imperfections cause us to have … [Read more...]

Relationship Advice: 14 Great Questions To Ask The One You Love

In order to have a relationship of honesty, clarity, love, and growth you have to communicate on deeper levels. One of the worst mistakes people make in relationships is not fully communicating openly and honestly about the deeper issues. Having a … [Read more...]

Christian Dating: Simple Dating Do’s and Don’ts when getting to know someone

We often make the mistake of being physically attracted to someone, but failing to really get to know them. Physical attraction is fine, but without common values and character it really does not matter much. In my opinion, most people base their … [Read more...]

Single Black Women: 10 Ways to Know if he is thinking long-term about you

Inside of our K4LC community I often get the question “How do I know if a man is serious about me?” I’ve always approached this question from an overall view of the getting to know process, because there are varying factors involved in really knowing … [Read more...]

Christian Singles: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married

In our society, marriage is often viewed as something negative and certain to not last. However, we have to all understand marriage is a ministry unto God; a covenant. A covenant means it is joined by God for His glory, thus you don’t just run and … [Read more...]

Relationship Advice: 18 Ways to Make Him Feel Special

Every man needs to be affirmed by the woman in his life. Your support, encouragement, and positive presence help him become the best man he can be. Behind every great man is a greater woman. So, the more value you add to his life, the more valuable … [Read more...]