5 Bad and Common Dating Habits

I am just as guilty as anyone else when it comes to repeating dating habits. Granted, thousands of people around the world read my work, but I am quick to tell people I am flawed. Yeah, I have Godly gifts, wisdom, knowledge and discernment.... but I … [Read more...]

7 Likely Reasons You Are Single

"Why am I still single? I'm a great catch." "Why can't I just have one, good solid relationship?" Many of us have seen, read, or even said some of these things. It's perfectly normal to desire a relationship. However, sometimes our strong desire … [Read more...]

5 Signs You Are Too Selfish for Love

Are you ready for love? Do you have a solid foundation to date responsibly, court, and eventually enter into a lifelong covenant of marriage? Selfishness should put the brakes on any plans you have to start any of this. Let’s be honest, we all … [Read more...]

5 Amazing Things Delilah Can Teach You about Loving a Man

Most of us know the story of Samson and Delilah (Judges 16), but how many of us have truly looked at both sides of the coin? On one side, we have Delilah being everything a man does not want, need, or desire in a woman. However, on the other side of … [Read more...]

Dating Advice: 11 Red Flags Men Should Look For

We have seen plenty of lists of “Red Flags” for women, so I decided to write one for the men. Men have things we have to look out for as well. However, red flags do not mean that someone is a bad person. It just means they are human and need a little … [Read more...]

Single Black Women: 10 Ways to Know if he is thinking long-term about you

Inside of our K4LC community I often get the question “How do I know if a man is serious about me?” I’ve always approached this question from an overall view of the getting to know process, because there are varying factors involved in really knowing … [Read more...]

6 Ways to Balance Love and Life

Football season is here! Let’s be honest, this is the time of year some of us were waiting on the edge of our seats for and others, well… not so much. In addition to the games, there is tailgating, Fantasy Leagues, online video gaming, and more! All … [Read more...]

7 ways to overcome sexual temptation

This notion that Christians don’t battle sexual urges is kind of silly and churchy. No person is exempt from any form of temptation.  The idea that because one is a follower of Jesus Christ they won’t get tempted to have sex or engage in sexual … [Read more...]

Relationship Coaching: 7 confessions of how a life coach overcame a breakup

Relationship break-ups are a huge part of the email questions I receive, so I decided to address the issue with all of you. I, personally, have been down and hurt over a break-up, so I know firsthand about the pain you feel-the sense of lost, … [Read more...]

Singleness: 8 signs you’re not ready for a relationship

There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven. Ecclesiastes 3:1 One of the most asked questions I get is “When do I know I am ready for relationship?” There is no cookie cutter answer to this, but as … [Read more...]