Don’t Mistake a Man who is a college drop-out with no job as a failure

Honestly, I get a little upset with men or women of God who suggest that a good man is this or that. Then they assert that a bad man is this or that. I have always disagreed with these models of what makes a man or woman “good”, because what we fail … [Read more...]

Relationship Advice: 5 ways to Overcome Sexual Soul Ties

Here is my video discussing How to Break Sexual Soul Ties: Having sexual intercourse with someone creates a bond between you and that person. This is what I call a sexual soul tie (Please read my blog, “3 things you need to know about Sexual … [Read more...]

Warning: Don’t follow your heart

Jesus said, “Out the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders.” (Matthew 15:19) I have had deep disappointment based on following, and not leading, my heart. Christ must be the crown of our heart … [Read more...]

7 ways to overcome sexual temptation

This notion that Christians don’t battle sexual urges is kind of silly and churchy. No person is exempt from any form of temptation.  The idea that because one is a follower of Jesus Christ they won’t get tempted to have sex or engage in sexual … [Read more...]

Do you make these mistakes because of Anger?

"A quick-tempered man does foolish things." Proverbs 14:17 "An angry man stirs up dissension, and a hot-tempered one commits many sins." Proverbs 29:22 "A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control." Proverbs … [Read more...]

Spiritual Growth Coaching:Ten steps to overcoming bitterness and resentment

Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:31-32 Bitterness and resentment are … [Read more...]

Spiritual Growth Coaching: 10 Steps to Forgiveness

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong- Gandhi First, I want to thank everyone for the continued love and support. I have received countless messages concerning my blogs along with several questions. I give God the … [Read more...]

Spiritual Growth Coaching: The dangers of emotion

An emotional person is defined as: One who is easily affected with or stirred by emotion; one who displays emotion; one with a tendency to rely on or place too much value on emotion; or one whose conduct is ruled by emotion rather than reason. We … [Read more...]

Spiritual Growth Coaching: Painful Reality

The painful lesson of life is... you don't always matter as much to the people who really matter to you... no matter if it's rooted in a selfish heart, lust, pride, greed, or lack of loving correctly... this fact remains. We must do our part to pray … [Read more...]