9 Things Every Man Wants In A Woman

Men are really simple creatures. Most of us do not desire much. However, the little we do desire means the world to us. Women often make the mistake of thinking men are really moved by physical appearance (and yes there is some truth to that), but only for a short period of time. Mature men consider beauty a bonus. They truly desire a woman with substance.

Here is what mature men want in a woman:
1. Ability to love him unconditionally – A man likes to know his woman will always be there for him, still loving him… even if he fails her. He likes to know she will be there for him and with him in the good times and the tough times. To learn more read Love is a choice not an emotion.

2. Ability to be his friend – A man loves a woman who can truly be his friend. Many men feel friendship is very important because it creates an environment of sharing, openness, and the ability to truly get to know a woman.  To learn more read The one relationship mistake you don’t know you’re making. 9 Things Every Man wants in a woman

3. A woman of God – Many would refer to this as a virtuous woman (a Proverbs 31 woman). This term is tossed around a lot, but men genuinely do love this type of woman. The main thing to admire about this type of woman is she knows she has not arrived and has issues; yet, she is working hard daily to become everything God has for her life.

4. The famous “Ride or Die Woman” – This is the type of woman who is down with her man if he has $2 dollars or $2,000,000. She is very famous, indeed, and men absolutely love this type of woman.

5. An available woman – A man needs a woman who is single and fully available. This means she is living free from any emotional residue from a past relationship. She has healed from hurt and is not seeking to numb pain through a new relationship. She is able to be completely transparent with him, because she has been honest with herself about her past experiences, shortcomings, etc…

6. A woman of high character – Character is truly best represented by the decisions we make and actions we take when no one is around. A man wants a woman with high moral standards; whose actions align with her good intentions. This is the type of woman he is able to trust with his dreams, visions, and goals. This is the type of woman he knows he can grow with.

7. Exercises emotional stability – This doesn’t mean you turn off emotions, but it does mean you are not living on emotion and making emotionally-based decisions. It’s difficult for a man to trust a woman who acts on emotion. Managing emotion is critical.  If you are a woman struggling with emotions pick up the book Living Beyond Your Feelings: Controlling Emotions So They Don’t Control You By Joyce Meyer

8. Ability to relax and be playful – Who doesn’t like someone who knows how to have a little fun?

9. An independent woman – Men don’t desire a weaker vessel to control or simply take care of. He wants a woman who can add to what he brings to her life. He especially likes a woman who is independent, but knows how to be interdependent within a relationship.

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