Don’t Mistake a Man who is a college drop-out with no job as a failure

Honestly, I get a little upset with men or women of God who suggest that a good man is this or that. Then they assert that a bad man is this or that. I have always disagreed with these models of what makes a man or woman “good”, because what we fail … [Read more...]

Why you should wait to Introduce Your Children to Your New Dating Partner..

According to Newsone.com , “72% of African-American households are headed by a single parent.” This means for men or women, the odds that you have a child or will meet someone with a child is quite high. Of course these chances go up as we age. So, … [Read more...]

5 Reasons Men Avoid Being Your Friend

Most of you reading this right now read my articles on a regular basis and are aware of my philosophy of becoming friends before lovers. If you aren’t aware of my stance on friendship, here are two articles to read that will give you the foundation … [Read more...]

How to Love the Job You Hate

Have you ever heard someone say, “I hate my job?” Perhaps you have been guilty of speaking those words yourself. I want to caution you to be mindful of the words you speak and understand the power behind what you say. The dictionary defines “hate” … [Read more...]

5 Ways to Know if Nagging is Killing your Relationship

No man enjoys being nagged by a woman. No woman ever wants to be called a nag. However, in spite of the best attempts by some of the most mature men and women, many relationships end up having to deal with this ineffective cycle of communication! Why … [Read more...]

6 Things Everyone Should Understand About Love

Love is the reason we are all here on earth. God sent his son, Jesus, to restore fellowship between God and man. The fact that He sent His only son was an example of His great love for us and His desire to restore us. God birthed us all with a love … [Read more...]

Are Men Afraid of Rejection?

I remember being in high school and everyone always assumed it was easy for me to talk to women, because I had the attention of many of them. Little did anyone know, I was deathly afraid to approach women and got nervous anytime I had to. Even today, … [Read more...]

The Real Difference between “Love” and “In Love”

For years R&B songs, movies, and just the general opinions of people have taught us that being “in love” was better than simply “loving” someone. I, personally, never felt this way because I grew up in church and my Granny taught me better. Every … [Read more...]

A Few Red Flags Men Should Never Ignore..

Women are just as capable of hurting a good man as a man is a good woman, but it’s rarely discussed. In this article, I will discuss basic red flags men need to consider when getting to know a woman. (1) Fresh out of a relationship: Avoid dating a … [Read more...]

7 Types of People You Might Want to Avoid Dating

Everyone has shortcomings and we all face issues. We all make mistakes and we all have room to improve. As a matter of fact, when dating, you should seek to get to know people who are open to improving. It is quite refreshing to interact with people … [Read more...]